So sorry to hear this :( alah yashfeeha min hal marath w trid bsalamaa.. as I told you its cureable so don't worry inshalla they cure her and she'll be back as good as new in no time.. alah ya36eeha e9e7a wil 3afya w yashfeha mina enshalla.
I'm really sad that she had to endure all this pain all that time in Kuwait just to find out what was wrong, each time I think of it I become enraged from our doctors......!!!
انشاء الله انشاء الله ربنا يشفيها و يطمنكم عليها و ترد لكم احسن من قبل
sorry to hear the news and you have all of our support and prayers, if you need anything dear don't be shy..
Honey, alah yishafey omich inshalah . I read your last post about her, from all the symptoms u had said I knew its cancer ..but I hoped I was wrong .i don’t wish for anybody to endure what me and my family had gone through for one year and a half ... nobody deserve that .. but its god’s will after all. I lost my mom to cancer .. it was pancreatic cancer .. this is the hard one .. it should be diagnosed in its first months. But remember one thing .. it’s a test .. kilah ajir li omich o lukum .. o inshalah they will cure her .. bs kathray min el salah o el do3a’a laha .. and one thing ba3ad .. el sadaqa .. tisadqay laha .
Inshalah tishfah o tirja3 likum salmah inshalah ..
D&G, I read the entire previous post about your mother. I kept wondering "did her eyes ever turn yellow?" and I got the answer at the very end.
My body forms biliary stones made of bilirubin and they can block my biliary duct. It is very rare, but when I read about your mother's suffering, I knew each and every symptom. I went through years of the same, and some doctors kept telling me it was in my mind, that I was making myself sick! (It isn't just Kuwaiti doctors)
Please, ask someone to do an ultrasound on her biliary duct. If there is a stone blocking her duct, they may be able to spot it with an ultrasound. The stones are hard to spot; I carry a file with me where ever I go so the doctors will believe me and do what I tell them (you know how much doctors like that, ho ho ho)
I hope it's not cancer. if it is a blocked biliary duct, they can knock it out with a lasar, going in through her mouth. I will keep your mother in my prayers
I am very sorry to hear about all of this, first ur brother Allah Yer7uma and all the suffering your mother had to go through... This is ur time to be strong and may Allah be by your side, your mother will not leave our prayers dear :*
feel free to ask for anything, we are all here for you,
I just read the Anonymous comment @ 2.25 am ,,, i hope what they said applies to ur mom
alah eshafeeha inshalla! Hopefully they caught it in the early stages. And there is treatment these days for cancer, o inshalla it is available for your mother.
I have been through this and I know what it entails, be strong for your mother, o alah ma3aach inshalla.
i'm sorry to hear that and may god be with ur mother surely it's too much to handle but always remember that cancer is a treatable disease and the corner stone of treatment is family support so be there for ur mother and if u need any infos about cancer or its treatment to hesitate and ask عسا الله يقومها بالسلامة ولا بئس طهور ان شاء الله
You have my sympathy and prayers. We have not met but I could feel your pain through the last post about your mother agony and pain. I lost my mother to metastatic breat cancer back in 93 so I know how it feels to be misdiagnosed by idiots only to find that the disease progressed when checking in with better doctors abroad. What kind of cancer is it? Benign/Metastatic? What stage? Has chemo started? If you are in Kuwait, call Dr. Fahad Al-Mulla. He is a pathologist at the faculty of medicine and probably the best in his field. He does screening for cancers and knows contacts specific to ones needs. His phone number are: 4985284 4986233 5348107 9778664 <--- Private cell phone number.
perhaps you should call his office at the first 3 numbers. Doctors in Kuwait are idiots but this Pathologist is extremely intelligent and the best in his field. He knows the people your mum needs to see. He also maintains a blog: http://www.gulfoncology.org/blog/blog.html
egray 3alaiha ilfat7a wayed don't let up. o ed3ai in the last 1/3 of the night, tara Allah ta3aala yanzel. and we mostly just waste that time sleeping.
ilee ga3deen itmoroon feeh mo sahal wil 9ara7a bichait wan aga3da agra ilee sar feekom :/ allah yashfi ahlich wy9abirkom .. try getting second opinions and such online , which helped our family a lot in the past..
I have been a silent reader for awhile, but this post has made me want to comment. I wish I had special words to say but all I can offer is I am sorry and my prayers are with you... And hold everyone tight,hugs do wonders.
بومريوم- Looking into it right now. Thank you, I really appreciate it.
Jacqui- Thank you darling, inshalla.
anon- inshalla and I'm truly sorry to hear that. Allah yir7amah.
Exzombie- Thanks man. I really appreciate it. o inshalla ya rab.
anon- I'm really sorry to hear that. It's such a hard thing to go through, obviously but like you said it's God's will, and he's testing us. Allah yir7amha. Again, I'm really sorry. o inshalla ya rab.
vyyvaa- Thank you, and I will.
anon- Sorry to hear about your condition. About my mom's skin color turning yellow, it turns out that the tumor was pressing up against the biliary duct so the bile was seeping out into her other organs causing her skin color and eyes to turn yellow. In Kuwait, they inserted stents as I said in the last part of the previous post. After a week or so, her skin color turned back to normal. Sadly, it is confirmed that it is cancer.
q80-chill girl- Thank you sweetheart. You really are a great friend. I really appreciate it.
Bojacob- Thanks and inshalla
abdvllah- That's true, and thanks.
ananyah- Thanks darling. I appreciate it, and enshallah. *hugs*
error- ameen ya rab.
enigma- inshalla and thank you.
lala- Thanks. *hug*
Marzouq- inshalla. Sadly they didn't catch it in it's early stages but my mom is strong. She'll pull through. I just know it. I'm sorry you had to go through it. I'm not going to ask for any details because a) it's rude and b) you might not wanna talk about it but still I'm sorry you had to go through that.
Shoush- Thank you sweetie o inshalla.
Shosho- Oh it is, and thank you. I appreciate it.
amu- Thanks. Me too.
Swair- Inshalla. I will, and believe me, I know that it's a blessing that she finally agreed to go to Germany. Thank you Swair. I appreciate it.
Q8philic- Thank you, I really really appreciate it and inshallah.
eschew obfuscation- Thank you. I'm sorry to hear that. It really is a terrible thing to go through for all parties involved. Allah yir7amha.
I'll post more about the details about the cancer that my mom has in the next post. Again, thank you. I appreciate all this especially since we haven't met before or anything.
bombay bombshell- Thanks. I will.
Arbaian Lady- Thanks o inshalla.
Big Pearls- Thanks o inshalla.
Falantan- il7emdella. Thanks o inshalla.
Jewaira- Thank you sweetheart.
Alia- inshalla *hugs*
anon- no it isn't, and inshalla. We did, though. Hope you didn't have to go through the same thing I'm going through.
bu thnayan- inshalla and thanks.
Anon- Thank you. I appreciate it. Actually, what you said is more than enough. Everyone's been so kind. I feel overwhelmed. Again, thank you.
Jesse- Thanks. It's called Auto Rock by Mogwai from the Miami Vice Movie (remake with Colin Farrel) soundtrack.
Dear sweetie Don’t worry about your mom, she’ll be OK. I have gone through the experience with two of my family members, my mother and my older sister. In my sister’s case we had lost hope because the cancer was spreading all over her lungs, and her womb and was affecting other parts of her abdomen. It took a long time to treat, a lot of operations, a lot of medication and chemotherapy. But, when there is a will (to hang on to life that is) there is always a way, she came back to us after almost a year in France, as good as new. Well, not exactly, but she is much better now. In fact, she went back to work, even though she had a sick retirement leave issued to her. Now, for someone who had to experience this, I know how hard it is to be powerful at times like these. But remember that she needs you all at this time. Not to whine and cry, but to give her hope. Cancer is not as bad as it used to be. Medication and research is advancing everyday. And most importantly, not one case of cancer resembles another. i.e. each sick person needs his/her specific treatments. So all you can do right now is to be positive about it. Not only by fooling yourself, but also by believing it. Bad thoughts create bad circumstances. So don’t create the worst scenario, because you will be physically creating it. But live as if she had to go through what is needed to be done, and soon she’ll be back, ornamenting her home. Best wishes 7abeebti.
I am so very sorry D&G. With all of my heart I am. I lost my dad after a very long and painful fight with his metastatic (spread) kidney cancer late last year and my little brother to lymphoma when I was at college. I lost my grandmother to lung cancer. My mother had it when I was 16 and I helped to take care of her and nurse her through her treatment.
I went with my dad twice to London and also to Lyon France for his surgeries and chemo. I fought with and went back and forth to the ministries and hospitals to get his treatments and took him to all his appointments. Knew all his doctors and was responsible for talking to them and arranging things with them. I researched his condition and treatments and would then help him to understand what was going on inside his body and what would happen to him. I Held his hand and wheeled him into CT and bone scans. I was there when he woke up from surgery one kidney and part of his liver less. Gave him daily interferon shots myself as part of his chemo. Analyzed his labs.
He was a fighter my dad. He raged against his cancer, he cursed and swore at it, he fought it with all his might. He was mightily pissed at his nemesis the cancer, and his anger made him press on until his time came.
Try now to be strong sweetie. try to understand that this is a fight for good, for love and life. I know there is a whirlwind of craziness and insanity that surrounds you all right now. Fear, tears, confusion and anger. So much. I have been there and watch the freak outs. They only drove me to become more calm, collected, and helped me to become the planner and director of my dad's care when we went through the thick of it over the past few years. But at the same time, you will find so much good and so much love that is there for you and your whole family. So many who want to help you and be there for you, who mean it and will help to carry your load.
Part of what I do and have done in my real life by profession involves cancer research. Cancer and I know each other very, very well. You could say we are old frenemies. I am sure you and your family are in good hands, but If there is any way at all in which I can be of help to you with regard to information, medical places abroad, and places or people in the field in Kuwait, please let me know. If you even want to be pointed to information which can help you to better understand things and educate yourself about your mothers illness, please let me know. My email is in my profile.
But most of all, if I can be of any comfort to you yourself D&G, and if you ever want to just talk to someone who knows exactly what you are going through who is a battle pro in one of the greatest fights you will ever fight, I am here.
Believe that God is with you. Believe that He does not abandon, and even when things seem so inexplicably senseless and horribly wrong, there is sense and reason for it, things which we cannot exactly comprehend.
My prayers are with you and your whole family. Wishing and Sending you much positive energy and love.
40 stolen kisses:
allh yshafeeha inshalla ..
ya3mree enty w omch..allah yshafeeha enshala w y5leeeha lkm enshala ya rb
So sorry to hear this :( alah yashfeeha min hal marath w trid bsalamaa.. as I told you its cureable so don't worry inshalla they cure her and she'll be back as good as new in no time.. alah ya36eeha e9e7a wil 3afya w yashfeha mina enshalla.
I'm sorry to read about this! Allah yashfeeha!
sorry to hear that 7abebti.. enshallah she recovers and beats this :*
أسأل الله العظيم رب العرش العظيم أن يشفيك
أسأل الله العظيم رب العرش العظيم أن يشفيك
أسأل الله العظيم رب العرش العظيم أن يشفيك
if u can,contact them:
http://www.mdanderson.org/
I am really sorry to hear this. But she can get through it inshalla, with the right treatment hopefully everything will be okay.
alla eshafeeha o eshafee kel mareeth, just pray. my heart goes out for cancer patients, i lost my dad to cancer..
I'm really sad that she had to endure all this pain all that time in Kuwait just to find out what was wrong, each time I think of it I become enraged from our doctors......!!!
انشاء الله انشاء الله ربنا يشفيها و يطمنكم عليها و ترد لكم احسن من قبل
sorry to hear the news and you have all of our support and prayers, if you need anything dear don't be shy..
Honey, alah yishafey omich inshalah .
I read your last post about her, from all the symptoms u had said I knew its cancer ..but I hoped I was wrong .i don’t wish for anybody to endure what me and my family had gone through for one year and a half ... nobody deserve that .. but its god’s will after all.
I lost my mom to cancer .. it was pancreatic cancer .. this is the hard one .. it should be diagnosed in its first months.
But remember one thing .. it’s a test .. kilah ajir li omich o lukum .. o inshalah they will cure her .. bs kathray min el salah o el do3a’a laha .. and one thing ba3ad .. el sadaqa .. tisadqay laha .
Inshalah tishfah o tirja3 likum salmah inshalah ..
i cant feel morer for u girl... i pray to God for her quick recovery... and be strong and always keep insisting on God in ur prayers and thoughts..
i cant feel morer for u girl... i pray to God for her quick recovery... and be strong and always keep insisting on God in ur prayers and thoughts..
D&G, I read the entire previous post about your mother. I kept wondering "did her eyes ever turn yellow?" and I got the answer at the very end.
My body forms biliary stones made of bilirubin and they can block my biliary duct. It is very rare, but when I read about your mother's suffering, I knew each and every symptom. I went through years of the same, and some doctors kept telling me it was in my mind, that I was making myself sick! (It isn't just Kuwaiti doctors)
Please, ask someone to do an ultrasound on her biliary duct. If there is a stone blocking her duct, they may be able to spot it with an ultrasound. The stones are hard to spot; I carry a file with me where ever I go so the doctors will believe me and do what I tell them (you know how much doctors like that, ho ho ho)
I hope it's not cancer. if it is a blocked biliary duct, they can knock it out with a lasar, going in through her mouth. I will keep your mother in my prayers
أسأل الله العظيم رب العرش العظيم أن يشفيها
I am very sorry to hear about all of this, first ur brother Allah Yer7uma and all the suffering your mother had to go through... This is ur time to be strong and may Allah be by your side, your mother will not leave our prayers dear :*
feel free to ask for anything, we are all here for you,
I just read the Anonymous comment @ 2.25 am ,,, i hope what they said applies to ur mom
Ouch, I'm sorry :( I hope it's caught in time for treatment.
Alla yshafeeha inshalla
That's really sad to hear.
Cancer treatment has achieved long strides in medicine.
I wish you and your family all the best.
u and ur family have been thru so much already and enshalla she'll get treatment and be as healthy as ever soon
im always here for you if you need me, remember that *hugs*
allah egawemha bil salama o esahel 3aleeha o eshafeeha inshallah o 3asa allah ethabet ahalech bil emaaan el7emdellah 3ala kil 7aal
allah yashfeha inshallaah, wygawmha bil salama.. my prayers are with your family
Allah eshafeeha inshaAllah..
Never give up hope, mako shy 3la Allah b3eed..
*HUG*
alah eshafeeha inshalla! Hopefully they caught it in the early stages. And there is treatment these days for cancer, o inshalla it is available for your mother.
I have been through this and I know what it entails, be strong for your mother, o alah ma3aach inshalla.
La7awlila. Allah yashfeeha inshala!
I can't believe the doctors in q8 cudn't figure that out. It's outrageous.
I'll include her in my prayers. Allah ygawimha bl salama wi5aleeha likom inshala.
This must be a very hard test to you and your family. I pray that God Almighty will grant your mother a speedy and painless recovery.
I am sorry to hear that..hope she gets well soon!!!
Miracles are never impossible... Enshalla she'll kick the C-word's ass and be back soon, healthy and happy..
Think positively, hun, ma dam she's NOT in a kuwaiti hospital, she'll get all the best care, attention and professional help she deserves...
I've been praying for your mom and dad ever since I read your previous post, and I'm not stopping :*
i'm sorry to hear that and may god be with ur mother
surely it's too much to handle but always remember that cancer is a treatable disease and the corner stone of treatment is family support so be there for ur mother
and if u need any infos about cancer or its treatment to hesitate and ask
عسا الله يقومها بالسلامة ولا بئس طهور ان شاء الله
You have my sympathy and prayers. We have not met but I could feel your pain through the last post about your mother agony and pain.
I lost my mother to metastatic breat cancer back in 93 so I know how it feels to be misdiagnosed by idiots only to find that the disease progressed when checking in with better doctors abroad.
What kind of cancer is it? Benign/Metastatic? What stage? Has chemo started?
If you are in Kuwait, call Dr. Fahad Al-Mulla. He is a pathologist at the faculty of medicine and probably the best in his field. He does screening for cancers and knows contacts specific to ones needs. His phone number are:
4985284
4986233
5348107
9778664 <--- Private cell phone number.
perhaps you should call his office at the first 3 numbers.
Doctors in Kuwait are idiots but this Pathologist is extremely intelligent and the best in his field. He knows the people your mum needs to see.
He also maintains a blog:
http://www.gulfoncology.org/blog/blog.html
Im so sorry...
Allah Yashfeeha.. Dont loose hope,
theres always a cure.
Khali emanich brabbech giwi.
try water zamzam
o Allah yshafeha
allah yeshafeeh ya rab
il7emdella 3ala kil 7al.
il7emdella 3ala kil 7al.
Kilshay min Allah zain il7emdella.
egray 3alaiha ilfat7a wayed don't let up. o ed3ai in the last 1/3 of the night, tara Allah ta3aala yanzel. and we mostly just waste that time sleeping.
Yalla ya rab tshafeeha o t5affef 3alaiha.
o il7emdella. peace comes with acceptance.
I hope your mom receives the best medical care and has her pain alleviated.
I was very frustrated reading all the hell she had to go through in your last post just to get properly diagnosed.
Our prayers for you and your family and most especially to your mother for recovery from her illness/
Love
Jewaira
I'm so sorry to hear that honey :**
Allah yshafeeha w y6amminkum 3alaiha
hugs
ilee ga3deen itmoroon feeh mo sahal wil 9ara7a bichait wan aga3da agra ilee sar feekom :/ allah yashfi ahlich wy9abirkom .. try getting second opinions and such online , which helped our family a lot in the past..
allah yshafeha inshala..
DG,
I have been a silent reader for awhile, but this post has made me want to comment. I wish I had special words to say but all I can offer is I am sorry and my prayers are with you... And hold everyone tight,hugs do wonders.
:( i wish you and your mom the best!
what is the name of the song on your blog?
anon- inshalla
pink- ameen ya rab o mashkoora 7abeebty
fourme- I hope so, inshalla, and thank you.
the stallion- Thank you o inshalla.
chica- Thanks, and inshalla.
بومريوم- Looking into it right now. Thank you, I really appreciate it.
Jacqui- Thank you darling, inshalla.
anon- inshalla and I'm truly sorry to hear that. Allah yir7amah.
Exzombie- Thanks man. I really appreciate it. o inshalla ya rab.
anon- I'm really sorry to hear that. It's such a hard thing to go through, obviously but like you said it's God's will, and he's testing us. Allah yir7amha. Again, I'm really sorry. o inshalla ya rab.
vyyvaa- Thank you, and I will.
anon- Sorry to hear about your condition. About my mom's skin color turning yellow, it turns out that the tumor was pressing up against the biliary duct so the bile was seeping out into her other organs causing her skin color and eyes to turn yellow. In Kuwait, they inserted stents as I said in the last part of the previous post. After a week or so, her skin color turned back to normal. Sadly, it is confirmed that it is cancer.
q80-chill girl- Thank you sweetheart. You really are a great friend. I really appreciate it.
Bojacob- Thanks and inshalla
abdvllah- That's true, and thanks.
ananyah- Thanks darling. I appreciate it, and enshallah. *hugs*
error- ameen ya rab.
enigma- inshalla and thank you.
lala- Thanks. *hug*
Marzouq- inshalla. Sadly they didn't catch it in it's early stages but my mom is strong. She'll pull through. I just know it. I'm sorry you had to go through it. I'm not going to ask for any details because a) it's rude and b) you might not wanna talk about it but still I'm sorry you had to go through that.
Shoush- Thank you sweetie o inshalla.
Shosho- Oh it is, and thank you. I appreciate it.
amu- Thanks. Me too.
Swair- Inshalla. I will, and believe me, I know that it's a blessing that she finally agreed to go to Germany. Thank you Swair. I appreciate it.
Q8philic- Thank you, I really really appreciate it and inshallah.
eschew obfuscation- Thank you. I'm sorry to hear that. It really is a terrible thing to go through for all parties involved. Allah yir7amha.
I'll post more about the details about the cancer that my mom has in the next post. Again, thank you. I appreciate all this especially since we haven't met before or anything.
bombay bombshell- Thanks. I will.
Arbaian Lady- Thanks o inshalla.
Big Pearls- Thanks o inshalla.
Falantan- il7emdella. Thanks o inshalla.
Jewaira- Thank you sweetheart.
Alia- inshalla *hugs*
anon- no it isn't, and inshalla. We did, though. Hope you didn't have to go through the same thing I'm going through.
bu thnayan- inshalla and thanks.
Anon- Thank you. I appreciate it. Actually, what you said is more than enough. Everyone's been so kind. I feel overwhelmed. Again, thank you.
Jesse- Thanks. It's called Auto Rock by Mogwai from the Miami Vice Movie (remake with Colin Farrel) soundtrack.
Dear sweetie
Don’t worry about your mom, she’ll be OK. I have gone through the experience with two of my family members, my mother and my older sister. In my sister’s case we had lost hope because the cancer was spreading all over her lungs, and her womb and was affecting other parts of her abdomen. It took a long time to treat, a lot of operations, a lot of medication and chemotherapy. But, when there is a will (to hang on to life that is) there is always a way, she came back to us after almost a year in France, as good as new. Well, not exactly, but she is much better now. In fact, she went back to work, even though she had a sick retirement leave issued to her.
Now, for someone who had to experience this, I know how hard it is to be powerful at times like these. But remember that she needs you all at this time. Not to whine and cry, but to give her hope. Cancer is not as bad as it used to be. Medication and research is advancing everyday. And most importantly, not one case of cancer resembles another. i.e. each sick person needs his/her specific treatments. So all you can do right now is to be positive about it. Not only by fooling yourself, but also by believing it. Bad thoughts create bad circumstances. So don’t create the worst scenario, because you will be physically creating it. But live as if she had to go through what is needed to be done, and soon she’ll be back, ornamenting her home.
Best wishes 7abeebti.
I am so very sorry D&G. With all of my heart I am. I lost my dad after a very long and painful fight with his metastatic (spread) kidney cancer late last year and my little brother to lymphoma when I was at college. I lost my grandmother to lung cancer. My mother had it when I was 16 and I helped to take care of her and nurse her through her treatment.
I went with my dad twice to London and also to Lyon France for his surgeries and chemo. I fought with and went back and forth to the ministries and hospitals to get his treatments and took him to all his appointments. Knew all his doctors and was responsible for talking to them and arranging things with them. I researched his condition and treatments and would then help him to understand what was going on inside his body and what would happen to him. I Held his hand and wheeled him into CT and bone scans. I was there when he woke up from surgery one kidney and part of his liver less. Gave him daily interferon shots myself as part of his chemo. Analyzed his labs.
He was a fighter my dad. He raged against his cancer, he cursed and swore at it, he fought it with all his might. He was mightily pissed at his nemesis the cancer, and his anger made him press on until his time came.
Try now to be strong sweetie. try to understand that this is a fight for good, for love and life. I know there is a whirlwind of craziness and insanity that surrounds you all right now. Fear, tears, confusion and anger. So much. I have been there and watch the freak outs. They only drove me to become more calm, collected, and helped me to become the planner and director of my dad's care when we went through the thick of it over the past few years. But at the same time, you will find so much good and so much love that is there for you and your whole family. So many who want to help you and be there for you, who mean it and will help to carry your load.
Part of what I do and have done in my real life by profession involves cancer research. Cancer and I know each other very, very well. You could say we are old frenemies. I am sure you and your family are in good hands, but If there is any way at all in which I can be of help to you with regard to information, medical places abroad, and places or people in the field in Kuwait, please let me know. If you even want to be pointed to information which can help you to better understand things and educate yourself about your mothers illness, please let me know. My email is in my profile.
But most of all, if I can be of any comfort to you yourself D&G, and if you ever want to just talk to someone who knows exactly what you are going through who is a battle pro in one of the greatest fights you will ever fight, I am here.
Believe that God is with you. Believe that He does not abandon, and even when things seem so inexplicably senseless and horribly wrong, there is sense and reason for it, things which we cannot exactly comprehend.
My prayers are with you and your whole family. Wishing and Sending you much positive energy and love.
Ms. Baker
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